Frequently Asked Questions
Conversations start with a question that we use to discover, connect and ensure we have all the information we need. We all have questions. The FAQ section organizes Wisconsin conversations around the Frequently Asked Questions that started their conversations. You(th) may use them one at a time or combine FAQs as you decide what conversation you wish to begin. Both FAQs and programs will be added as they are developed. If you(th) keep the conversation going, we will continue to find answers to our FAQs and likely develop new ones everyone can learn from.
This section includes: 1) Introduction to the example format, 2) Common questions about what the format includes, 3) Reflection
guide to support using one of our Wisconsin Conversations or creating your own.
Our Wisconsin Conversation Starters
Why do I talk about "X" when I talk about 4-H?
This conversation began because WI 4-H is changing. We use new terms and old terms and sometimes both. Members, families, and volunteers sought to find a common understanding of what 4-H includes and why 4-H matters. Current WI Conversations have filled in the blank with words like ‘pronouns’, ‘race’, ‘ethnicity’, ‘belonging’ and ‘inclusion’.
What if my 4-H Club isn't diverse?
This conversation began because WI 4-H members, families, and volunteers expressed confusion about terms like ‘diversity’, ‘equity’ and ‘inclusion’ and how those words could be applied in their local communities.
What if I'm the only one who "X" like me?
This conversation began because WI 4-H members, families, and volunteers had difficulty making connections and starting conversations on topics that felt isolating. This question may be ‘What if I’m the only one who thinks like me?’ or ‘What if I’m the only one who feels like me?’ and often very difficult in WI 4 -H, ‘What if I’m the only one who looks like me?’
What if I feel "X" about this topic of conversation?
This conversation began because WI 4-H members, families, volunteers and staff identified that everyone had different experiences with equity. They also expressed that we cannot predict how each individual or community may react to topics or situations. Whether we are observing, participating or leading conversations, we need practice. This question may be ‘What if I feel tired about people asking me where I’m from?’ or ‘What if I feel guilty about something that happened in history?’ ‘What if I feel scared to fail?’ ‘What if I feel defensive to people’s responses or actions?’
